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why do people label some men dead beat dads just because they dont pay child support i mean why do it if they dont have a job and i dont mean all dont deserve it i have been in that situation where my dad left mum me and three other siblings and then decided that paying 26 dollars a month was plently because my mum could go and work but he could not i hate him for that you know what my mum has proven that no matter what you can change that situation she is know buying a house and has a really good job getting back to the subject i think there are some women that are nasty by taking as much as they can now but some men are just as bad too with the not paying i have heard the argguments for both sides and say that both have valid points but each case must be taken in its own points if a dad leaves a good job for a job that pays less but gives him more time with the children go for it if the dad does not notify the change in the job department and expects me to be sorry yeah right